Monday, April 25, 2016

Invitation to Thanksgiving

Gigi, became the name that the girls called my grandmother. She lived in North Carolina until recently, so Madelyn didn't see her very often, but it had become tradition for her to spend Thanksgiving with us. A few weeks ago, when I picked Madelyn up from school, she was excited to show me the invitation for Thanksgiving that she'd made for Gigi. It was such a sweet, and random gesture. Little did she know, we were going to go visit with her in just a few days. So, she could hand deliver her invitation to her, and she was very excited.
 
I am so thankful for that nice visit and that we were able to spend time with her. Unfortunately, Gigi wont be joining us this Thanksgiving. We said goodbye to my grandmother this weekend and she passed away yesterday. It came as a surprise, since our visit last month was normal. She had moved to CT last year with my uncle, and he reached out to us on Friday and we were up there first thing on Saturday. It was the hardest thing I have ever done in my life.
 
I am thankful that she was at my wedding, thankful that she met my girls, thankful they moved to CT recently and that meant that many of her kids and grandkids could visit with her this weekend. My grandfather passed away years ago, and she's been missing him immensely ever since. So, I am thankful now, that she's able to dance with him again, and they'll be together watching over us at Thanksgiving. I'm also glad I took some pictures while we visited last month because I'm keeping these in mind, and not the more recent.
 
Hug your loved ones, and cherish each day.
XO
 


Thursday, April 21, 2016

The Swoon Series

My swooning for this, has become an addiction and I am completely fixated, on updating our kitchen. It started last spring, when we had a contractor come to give us a quote on doing the work. We were just about to move forward, when a few other issues arose, and those updates took priority. I told myself I'd get over it, and our kitchen was fine as is. Sadly, I was only able to make it a year, before the itch came back.

My parents put on an addition last year. Honestly, it was the renovation from hell. Every little possible thing that could go wrong did, and their contractor was the worst. I wouldn't wish their experience on anyone, it really was the pits. The one good thing that came out of the whole 1 year stress-filled challenge, was finding the carpenter who added new built ins to their living room and updated their bar. He's just an individual, no big overhead or big labor costs, and a passion for his work. He did an impeccable job, and everything is custom. For a fraction of the price of what you'd pay most companies.

We've had a number in mind that we'd have to have saved to do our kitchen and it seemed feasible it was in the 5 year plan.  About a month ago, we had the carpenter come to our house to give us a quote on redoing our kitchen, and removing the wall between our kitchen and dining room. His quote was almost too good to be true. He could put in hardwood floors, remove the wall, do custom cabinets including a new pantry and a wall of built-ins on a now-empty side wall, all for a fraction of what you'd expect to pay. We'd get our money back, probably two fold - because it would be so beautiful and unique.

Regardless of how reasonable his price is, it's still a lot of money, which my uber financial-savvy hubby just isn't ready to spend.  Don't get me wrong, I totally understand and respect his concerns. Buuuuuut, what it would do to our house, to the functionality and flow at the core of our home, and to my emotional attachment to the house, are substantial. There are a lot of things I love about our home, and a few things that I really don't. Funny enough, I thought the kitchen was adorable when we moved in, and it quickly became my least favorite part. The bar is too high, and the natural wood is covered in stains and impossible to clean, the floor is disgusting linoleum and always looks dirty no matter how you clean it, the cabinets are weird sizes, the oversized (ancient) stove works, but only sometimes and the large overhanging wall of cabinets makes the small space feel even smaller and darker than it is.

So, nearly every day I am looking online for the best appliance suites to share with Brian and show that not all appliances have to cost you, $6,000... you can find perfectly good ones for less. But I know it will take time, and eventually he'll come around to the idea. I just need to wait until he's ready. I think my problem is I'm slightly obsessed with home renovations, obsessed with HGTV and completely obsessed with the design plans we were given for a kitchen reno on our house. So, we'll see how patient I can be. Until it's time.... I'll continue to swoon over photos like these, and the idea of what could be (and hopefully will be, in the near future! ;)

white on white... beautiful counters, floors and lighting
 
One of very few photos where the kitchen layout actually looks like ours! This designer gives me hope seeing her working with her girls (and big smiles) in their kitchen!

More white on white... so clean and pretty!

Thursday, April 14, 2016

Happy Birthday, Brian!

Happiest Birthday wishes to my other half!
 
 
This picture is from a surprise party I threw for Bri 8 years ago! The first birthday that we celebrated together. I think we'd been dating for 6 months at this point. When I look back at old photos of us, time and time again, the Springsteen song - So Young and In Love, instantly starts going through my mind. This one is no exception. It was a beautiful April day and Brian went to play golf with friends. While he did that, we set up a party in our friends backyard. His face when he walked in was priceless, and this picture was snapped just a few minutes after. I'd pulled off a great surprise and was giddy that he was so excited. I wanted to give him the ultimate birthday party celebration, which was followed by a weekend in Boston. It was a ton of fun, and we were so young and in love.
 
 I feel like not much has changed... well, this year there will not be any wild party, or big surprises, and we're not that young any more :) And, we're married, have purchased a few homes, have a few kids, and on and on. BUT, I love him more than I thought possible, and I wish him a perfect day that he so deserves. I feel like the luckiest, and I know our little ladies are the luckiest to have him as their Daddy. Happiest wishes to our favorite guy - we love you to the moon!
 









 




 

Monday, April 11, 2016

Third times a charm?

I've been wearing glasses since I was 10.  As soon as I could wear contacts, I did and I've been a consistent contact lens wearer since. I swear after my pregnancies my eyes changed a bit, and I switched from 2 week disposables, to daily lenses. I love them but they tend to be pricey. Brian also wears glasses/contacts, so between both of our vision needs, we spend a lot of money each year just to see!
 
Last fall, Brian upgraded to a new pair, after like 7 years, and I was instantly jealous. Because I tend to only wear contacts, buying new glasses has always been a real treat, and I was quickly obsessed with finding a new pair. I'd been wearing mine for about 4 years and the style was outdated and the lenses had scratches. I thought if I could find a great pair, then I would wear them often and save a little on buying contacts regularly.
 
For about 20, of the 24 years, I've been seeing the same doctor in town. I had a change in insurance when I was working at Vineyard Vines, and saw someone else who was basically next door to our office. Now, back with my original doctor, he offered me a discount on a new pair from his showroom. I tried on probably 20 pairs, before I settled on this pair by Coach, and I was smitten. I couldn't wait for them to be done. Easy-peasy... or so I thought!
 

This past Saturday I picked up the glasses for the 3rd time, with the 3rd set of new lenses. I've baffled my doctor, and his technician because each of the other two lenses just didn't work. Now, I've completely frustrated them, and I've become the client they dread seeing. So, no matter what, I can't go back there for a while.
 
My last pair of glasses was an easy transition for me, especially since I bought them at Warby Parker. So, the whole process is essentially done online. The prescription that was used for those glasses, was prescribed by the other doctor. I ordered them, received them and it's been seamless ever since. I really wish this experience was similar. When I first picked up the glasses like 2 months ago, I got a headache within minutes. It took the excitement of the new frames and just squashed it in instantly. I read online to give it time, etc so I tried to wear them for a few hours at night, but they made me nauseous and dizzy, it was a mess. So, I went back and we reviewed everything and I even brought my old glasses in for comparison. If they've always worked, I figured maybe they could just mimic those. It shouldn't be so difficult, right? They agreed to lower the prescipt and give me new lenses for no charge. Those were a lot better, but after a month of non stop wearing, I was STILL having issues focusing and with quick movement. I went back a week ago, and this time, they weren't so nice. I apologized a few times, because they were clearly annoyed but quite honestly I shouldn't have to apologize. I understand that I was insulting their work, but I thought I did so gently and with good reason. I mean, I just spent the money on the frames, I'm not going to waste that - I want these to work!
 
Anyway, I'm on day 3 with the latest and greatest, and I'm not sold. At this point, I can't tell if my eyes are adjusting, or if I've slowly forced my eyes to see. From my understanding, the difference in the doctors prescriptions is very marginal (or so he's telling me). So, it's anyone's guess at this point. Or, maybe I'm just crazy? Totally possible ;) Whatever it is, I've vowed to make these work, so I'm not giving up now! Wish me luck.
 
Happy Monday! XO

Friday, April 8, 2016

Family

This week we had a death in my family.  It wasn't necessarily sudden, but happened quickly nonetheless and has been difficult to grasp. It is an unfortunate reminder to slow down, and appreciate how precious life is. To stop and smell the roses and have perspective on your priorities.
 
 My family means everything to me and it's so important to spend time together, during the good times and in bad, because family helps you through.
This weekend will be a quieter one and all about family.
I am very much looking forward to spending time with these peeps - my favorites :)
 

 
Wishing you a wonderful weekend with your favorites! XO